Monday, April 20, 2009
Celebrating Valentine For A 'Single'
Valentine's Day is a day that is recognized by the pair to give each other flowers and greeting cards, as well as the dates for the romantic moments filled with love that. The day is often used by the couple to celebrate and strengthen the feeling of love back in between them. But for couples who do not have, Valentine day can cause a negative effect.
For those who still own lonely feelings can arise and less confidence, especially for those who believe in the understanding of a true love. Are trapped atmosphere with the feel of a full love
Dr. Laura S. Brown, professor of psychology at Argosy University Seattle the shadow of the pair is happy and full of love can cause a feeling of solitude, or into a kind of isolation for people who do not have a pair and hope they always have. He said that love is not only true on a certain day, or on greeting cards and flowers, or about the status of being in a relationship. Therefore, rather than continue to lament on the day of Valentine, it is better to have a pair that does not participate celebrate.
Brown reminded the most important for couples who do not have is to always remember in the days that Valentine's love not only for the pair, but for all of us.
Here are some ways how a man or women who are single may enjoy Valentine's Day without worry akan emergence from the moment the pressure.
1. First, know your not the only one. According to the census, there are millions of other people who spend this day with the single status.
2. Define your contention for Valentine's Day. What is the day that you want to celebrate? Or you prefer a treat that day as other days? If you choose the latter, just run your normal routines on 14 February, with a conscious, if that date will soon change with the date February 15 and will return to normal life (at least until next year).
3. If you choose to celebrate Valentine's Day, think to date with yourself. Cook your own message or your favorite menu, make something fun to drink. Rent your favorite movies or buy new books, what the main thing that can make you feel special and consoled. Make that night as a sacred time to think of ideas and visions that have all of your dreams.
4. Party invitation on Valentine's Day, it is considered reasonable in the time like this. This is a good opportunity to meet with other singles to spend time together. This is very important if you are a social group that holds an even. Will be a moment that is very interesting for you, because it met with people who have a background or interest in the same. Make sure you come with the possible.
5. If you have several friends who are also alone, consider to make your own Valentine's Day party. Try every friend that you are also invited to bring friends. You will meet new people and be able to have fun with them.
6. When you make a party, you think too much to be done, consider the group to invite you along to go have dinner or berdisko together. Try to go to a restaurant that the element of fun. The place is too crowded for people to make a romantic dinner. With this you will avoid a full view of the romantic in front of your eyes.
7. Use this day to try or buy something new. Select a hobby or a craft, cooking recipes or add new home décor. Time will pass quickly when you enhance your surroundings.
8. sports! This will clean your skin, make healthy body and keep endorphin remains terproduksi. You will also feel more rileks and can sleep more soundly.
9. If you love children, consider keeping your child's friend when they are celebrating Valentine's Day. You will enjoy the time to make cakes, toys up the fort and of course you will get a sense of gratitude from your friends.
10. Spend Valentine's Day by giving and sharing your talents with others. By doing something useful for other people, can make you feel the happiness itself.
11. Use the night to finish a long delayed correspondence such as email, letters and greeting cards thank you. That all is one way to keep in touch with each other your friends. In addition, it will be a good way to eliminate the obligation of the to-do list you.
12. Consider spending the night to see the show with live music, or sit in a cafe in a nearby cafe or bookstores. You can do your own activities but can still be near other people.
13. Mutual exchange Valentine cards with your friends. Cards can be funny sometimes-funny, or is incompetent, but the best way to make friendship you become more solid.
14. Use it to add the night time you sleep. Be prepared to sleep early and wake up more the next morning on the same morning.
15. Valentine's Day Sadarilah if only just a moment. Not about love or a relationship. It was mostly about selling flowers, candy and jewelry jewel. Try to think about how much money you can not celebrate with a sparingly.
16. If you still own and do not want that, start now to think how to create the relationship you want. Discover how to become someone who can make your dream pair fall in love. Start a therapy. Start to practice yoga. Be volunteers. Create a work of art. make something to change the world. By making your life be full, love will come soon.
17. If you're single and you like it, Now is the time to make sure he is. People who get married will not have the life and relationships more intimate and close with the people in surrounding areas. Do not let the culture of life with a pair, make you choose to be hit-pair.
Get the single, do not be bashful again celebrate Valentine!